His parents brought him and his siblings up in Downington, Pennsylvania, where they were close to much of their extended family.
As a child, the family had a set time for breakfast and dinner, which all family members attended. These meals also included daily family devotions.
Jeremy was homeschooled until the 11th grade, when he began attending Downington West High School. During his last two years of high school, Jeremy began to get involved in the "weekend party scene". Jeremy played soccer while in high school, and was named regional All-America as a junior.
Jeremy met Ben and Jessa Seewald while they were visiting a friend in San Antonio and happened to attend a church fellowship at Jeremy's house. Jeremy struck up a friendship with Ben, and a couple months later when visiting Ben and Jessa he was introduced to Jessa's sister, Jinger. As he began to get to know her, he started praying about pursuing a relationship with her. Shortly after, Jeremy went on a mission trip to Central America with the Duggar family, where he spent more time with Jinger and discovered his interest in her was mutual. On December 11, 2015, he asked her father's permission to begin getting to know her more seriously. On June 20, 2016, the couple announced that they were courting.
On July 26, 2016, while on a trip to New York City, Jeremy took Jinger onto the rooftop of a building under the pretense of taking sunset photos together with Jeremy's photographer friend. He had arranged for a string quartet to be playing one of Jinger's favorite hymns. It was here that he proposed to her.
On November 5, 2016, Jeremy married Jinger Duggar at the Cathedral of the Ozarks at John Brown University in Siloam Springs, Arkansas in front of nearly 1,000 guests. The ceremony was officiated by Jeremy's father, Charles Vuolo. Jeremy's best man was his brother, Charles Vuolo Jr.. Jinger's brother, John-David, and brother-in-law, Ben were among the groomsmen. Jeremy's sister, Valerie, was one of the bridesmaids.
The couple went to Australia for their honeymoon. The honeymoon was featured on Counting On episode "A Honeymoon & a Courtship".
Jinger moved into Jeremy's apartment in Laredo, Texas, after the wedding. On March 25, 2019, they announced that they were moving to Los Angeles, California, to attend Grace Community Church as Jeremy pursues graduate studies at The Master’s Seminary.
On January 3, 2018, Jeremy and Jinger announced that they were expecting their first child. On April 9, 2018, Jeremy and Jinger announced that their child would be a girl. At 4:37 am on July 19, 2018, Jeremy's first daughter, Felicity Nicole, was born. She weighed 8 lb 3 oz, and was 19 ½ inches long. In a statement to People Magazine, Jeremy said: "God is so kind. Both mom and baby are healthy, doing great, and resting well. We are very thankful for her safe arrival and look forward to life as parents!".
The couple suffered a miscarriage in the Fall of 2019. The miscarriage occurred the day after they had announced to their families that they were expecting.
On May 28, 2020, they announced that they are expecting their second daughter, due in November. At 11:26 pm on November 22, 2020, Jinger gave birth to their second daughter, Evangeline Jo. She weighed 7 pounds and was 20 inches long.
Jeremy begin attending Hartwick College in 2007, where he was studying business. In 2009, he transferred to Syracuse University for his senior year, where he was enrolled in the MBA program in the Martin J. Whitman School of Management. He continued to play soccer as a goalkeeper at both universities, and in 2010 was his team's captain. Jeremy graduated from Syracuse University in 2010.
On May 14, 2018, Jeremy announced that he had been accepted into the theological and pastoral studies program at The Master's Seminary. It is unlikely that he will be moving to California to study on campus full-time.
Professional soccer career
After graduating from college, Jeremy began playing with Finnish First Division side AC Oulu. In January of 2012, he signed with the New York Red Bulls. Jeremy said of his time in New York, it "proved to be one of the most difficult, while simultaneously being one of the most fulfilling, that I had ever had. Soccer did not progress how I had foreseen but it was clear that God was molding and nurturing me. I could go into great detail on the particulars but, for the sake of brevity, will simply say that God humbled me beyond what I thought possible.". On November 19, 2012, the team declined his option for the next season. Jeremy went on to make a trial appearance with Finnish club HJK Helsinki in 2013 and was also offered a chance to join a North Caroline team for preseason training. Although Jeremy posted a blog post on March 6, 2013, claiming that he would be leaving soccer to pursue full-time ministry, later that month he announced on twitter that he had signed a contract with the San Antonio Scorpions.
For a few years Jeremy studied under Tim Conway of Grace Community Church in San Antonio, Texas. On March 5, 2016, he was ordained a pastor at Grace Community Church in Laredo, Texas. Around this time, Jeremy officially became the pastor of GCC, and still leads this church today.
On January 16, 2008, Jeremy was arrested for harassing a police officer. According to the arrest record, which was obtained and published by InTouch Magazine in June of 2016, Jeremy "was acting belligerent and shouting obscenities". He was held overnight and fined $250.